sucks to be you!
Saturday, February 06, 2010
it was great catching up with a good friend yesterday night. it was supposed to be a birthday celebration, but there was no cake, no present, only accompaniment in its purest sense. and i guess that's the most important thing between friends and/or boy and girl friends. being able to spend quality time is the best thing that could happen, really.
we talked about many things, ranging from his china trip to what happened in camp recently...and we came to realise the importance of having good relations and a broad network of links. in the working world, it doesn't matter what you do, if you have the right people around you, things can be done fast. and coupled with the correct environment and opportunities, you could very well succeed.
i have been contemplating whether i should pick up certain things i left off previously. yes, i do forgive people because i still want them in my life (yeah, this is quoted from facebook -.-), but sometimes it's not just about forgiving people. you need to know what the other party feels. and so communication is important, if not crucial.
sometimes, it really isn't that bad a thing to let go of something or someone.
when it comes to working, or even to relationships, it's more of how much responsibilities you want to take and how much you want to commit yourself into doing the work. it may be your career, or just a forced job like in ns, and there's work in front of you. you could choose to do it well, or do a half-fked job, or not do it all. because if you don't do it, there would be someone else who would eventually. it's all up to you. this decision, of course, is based on your work ethics and your personal qualities. and maybe your desire to get promoted. =/
and so to those concerned, blame on it your luck for having commanders who only do work to cover their asses. blame it on your luck for having commanders who rather cover their own asses than to protect their men. and finally, don't make your problem mine, for i'm not a commander. there's only this much i could do, and everyone is making me feel like not working anymore.
and thanks bro, for that great meal last night. cheers!
we talked about many things, ranging from his china trip to what happened in camp recently...and we came to realise the importance of having good relations and a broad network of links. in the working world, it doesn't matter what you do, if you have the right people around you, things can be done fast. and coupled with the correct environment and opportunities, you could very well succeed.
i have been contemplating whether i should pick up certain things i left off previously. yes, i do forgive people because i still want them in my life (yeah, this is quoted from facebook -.-), but sometimes it's not just about forgiving people. you need to know what the other party feels. and so communication is important, if not crucial.
sometimes, it really isn't that bad a thing to let go of something or someone.
when it comes to working, or even to relationships, it's more of how much responsibilities you want to take and how much you want to commit yourself into doing the work. it may be your career, or just a forced job like in ns, and there's work in front of you. you could choose to do it well, or do a half-fked job, or not do it all. because if you don't do it, there would be someone else who would eventually. it's all up to you. this decision, of course, is based on your work ethics and your personal qualities. and maybe your desire to get promoted. =/
and so to those concerned, blame on it your luck for having commanders who only do work to cover their asses. blame it on your luck for having commanders who rather cover their own asses than to protect their men. and finally, don't make your problem mine, for i'm not a commander. there's only this much i could do, and everyone is making me feel like not working anymore.
and thanks bro, for that great meal last night. cheers!